31 years old•
Chelmsford, United Kingdom
heartly21
a woman,
looking for a man aged 25-35
About me
About me:
well guess this is the section where you have to reveal a little about yourself without sounding bragging or full of yourself in one hit so i ll try my best. my personality..hmm..i guess others would describe me as impulsive, demanding witty,and irritable....., joking,- that was just a test to ward away the indivuduals which may have no sence of humour or poor sad little individuals which more often that not judge a book by its cover.lol! On rather a serious note now though i'd say i'm positive in nature, fun to be around and tries to make light of the world around us, especially when times get tough, easy going and polite,.. so guess i m pretty strong minded and believe in sticking to your values and ethics in life, otherwise we'd all be like wandering robots and puppets on strings. I can be calm, tranquil, and kind at times , but on the flipside like to laugh, geek off and generally bring out the best in people. i'm a risk taker, love a challenge, and passionate in my ways. I hold on to the people in my life i love very much and would do anything for them, but takes time and trust, it's never just granted it must be earnt. I have a natural ability to see through things very easily so am good at sifting out the baddies from the good, if people upset me i don t hang around for long as there is always a reason as to why certain people never make it to our futures. Im from a loving family , have an older brother and my folks still married after all these years. This makes me traditional in my valuies of family life and believe in marriage and the family unit once true love is found. I love to cook, enjoy socialising, and doing things together as well as getting involved in sports and love anything adventurous, i ll give anything a go once-i m No scardy cat, lol! i'm a professional Make-up Artist, so have a creative nature, and can be very flamboyant and passionate when i m in the work/creative zone. Previously i have worked in the City, Sales and in Media for a short while. I do have a business head also thought as helped my mother s business establish and grow and gain reputable appreciation and sucess throught 2005-2008, gave me sooow much experience and over all skills and knwoledge coupled with gaining invaluable confidence to be able to turn an idea in to a real life establishment, The apprentice here we come..., lol!. i'm an open minded individual who likes variety in life with a free spirit who see the bigger picture of life in the whole scale of things. i'm comfortable in my own skin and happiest when i m sitting on a beautiful beach, reading , soaking in a hot oily bath and candles and being around animals. likewise when i'm being hugged, being with my family and freinds and seeking new adventure!. In Life theres never a 'Right' time for anything a good wise friend once told me, and there is also no such thing as 'normal'. Times when i've looked at my life and have thought 'i can't do this', and 'i can't do that'! But we must concentrate on the things we can do, rather than the things we can't. I have come to believe that there are a few key principals in life i believe it is to be thankful , and to reach out to people's hearts whatever the situation. One day when the time is right you will know , as you will feel its emotion to lead you in to the right direction. It's scary to know how people in this world are un-happy in life! just because..? , or from being thrown the bad things in life people should just not have to experience to be taught otherwise. It's scary to know that from being a victim of violence, intimidation, or even girls who suffer from eating disorders who hates themselves for the way they are! from people who hate the world, have anger in themselves and have anger against others for the answers! It's scary to know how many people think they are worth nothing...t But want you to know how great a person you are, how beautiful you are, and capable of being and doing everything you truly want, i believe now, and so must you. Its the dedication, strength, confidence and courage which are the hard parts, but once found they will take you to better places in this world which will lead to other better emotions and the prizes that come along with it. As we know, money can't buy happiness, it can buy stuff but realising its just paper can change a whole lot in the way we take our path in this life journey. Its hard to be thankful in life,as we focus on the negative, or at least brains keep plaing tricks on us do to make us feel that way. But going back a few months ago i had pretty much thought i had summed up life, and where i was going, until something life changing happened and effected my whole life an way of thinking I was caught up in a situation I now know what we all want and by helping others by this note to seek a life of meaning that inner strength can carry you through everything, and keep those �demons� away from entering your mind effecting where you take yourself and your future. I love life, so many people say...�how comes you smile so much�?..and i�m like..it�s a long story, but really it�s very simple, it�s hard to strive and smile when there are so many things in life that we don�t know or even understand..you simply don�t know if your gonna get through it or not..you don�t know how long the storms gona be...?? Don�t waste your time on the confused people , and for those that have lost, out of sight defiantly doesn�t mean out of mind. It's a lie to think life Can defeat you! A Lie to think your not worth anything I learnt Peace And Love