Last seen 18 April 2019, 12:10
45 years old•
Cape Town, South Africa
Boetebessie
a woman,
looking for a man aged 30-69
About me
About me:
Hello, I'm BoeteBessie. I'm brainy, breasty, funny, flaky, pretty, open-minded, bright, articulate, and in it for the long haul... I'm here because I am recently recycled - with a suitable mourning period - and all my friends are responsibly engaged and putting their children to bed or working hard on creating children. I'm ow ready to consider the possibility of settling down or at least working on a relationship. You get a good-looking, intelligent and well-spoken partner. You can show me off at functions and my make-up will all be in the right places. I have a brain and I love to absorb new ideas and ways of being. I can hold my own in conversations and offer a lively and stimulating debate without being argumentative. I find that I only know others when I know myself so my solitude is vital to being able to be intimate. I like my own company too and am not going to be clingy when you go out with your mates of either gender. I'm a bit of a flake too. I am spiritually aware and have a keen interest in metaphysics and transpersonal psychology, mindfulness and cartomancy, guided visualisations and reiki - nothing too spooky like talking to your grandma's uncle. I love animals and children and am excellent with them. My toy dog is the apple of my eye and sleeps in the bed with me. It wouldn't be wise to ask me to choose between you and her ;-) I think she needs me more. I am seeking a man of immodest means with an equally immodest psyche to keep my pseudo-intellectual habit going. I am independent and unclingy so I would be happy for you to spend time playing sport or with your your friends. If fact, this would be a necessity as I enjoy my own time. I could use many words to describe my temperament, but I would be different with everyone - so you'd need to meet me or chat online with me to get a sense of me. I will always endeavour to treat people with dignity and integrity Honesty would be of paramount importance... We would be friends, lovers, companions, partners, parents and fellow travellers on this journey called life. Don't we all need one person to travel with us?
