chipats

a woman, looking for a man aged 30-40

About me

About me:

Asian American here, 5'7" independent, secure, slender, stylish, outgoing, kind, loyal ,understanding, smart, self deprecating, well traveled, spiritual...Enjoy simple as well as more sophisticated things in nature. Enjoy dining out, movies, reading the news, learning, investing, traveling and staying home and relaxing with loved ones. I'm laid back and not into hypermaniacs who have to run around all the time to be entertained. I am looking for a man first and foremost that can be honest with himself and honest with others no matter how painful. Nothing is more unattractive than someone who is a complete sociopath and will compromise anything in order to get his way. Sometimes it's hard to look at ourselves and the dysfunction that we can't always recognize. Not into addictive personalities- whether your dysfunction is drugs, sex, gambling, work, etc, . You know who you are and please stay far far away. Want someone that truly wants to get to know each other on a more intimate level besides just physical attraction. Physical attraction is the catalyst that starts the engine, but to maintain the longevity of any healthy relationship, takes patience and commitment.To really take a real interest in other people and have the patience to learn about one another and not just thru their own lens. I 'm finding that the internet can be an efficient way of meeting people you normally would not come across in every day life but at the same time , I find that people sometimes on the net misrepresent who they truly are inside and out. I'm looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage and I want a man that is ready right now in his stage of life to commit to that idea.

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