Last seen 15 April 2019, 09:15
42 years old•
Chicago, United States
Jaxonila
a woman,
looking for a man aged 38-58
About me
About me:
I'm looking for the mutual wow factor... from a physical, intellectual, and emotional standpoint, an effortless chemistry that takes on a life of its own. I know things get complicated and sacrifices need to be made down the line... but the joy of the beginning is getting wowed... enjoying the person, the moment, the potential... in their eyes, their words, and their actions. It happens, just not very often. But why settle for anything less than something that takes you away in a spirited, playful, intriguing kind of way??? It's not about matching a list of criteria... it's about chemistry from the inside out. Cliff notes (for those who aren't into monologues): Kind, genuine, funloving, compassionate, silly, responsible soul who enjoys laughter, substance, and exploring new places and activities seeks compatible individual for mutually enjoyable company in a platonic or romantic context. (kinda verbose for cliff notes huh?) :) For those interested in the full book ;) ... I'm just your average funloving, flirtatious (although a bit shy at first), responsible, adventurous, courteous, silly, playful, down to earth, sarcastic (ok, major wiseankle), non-smoking, non-drug-using, chocolate covered espresso bean, mango, and brie (but not together at the same time) addict I consider myself a fairly positive, optimistic, and happy person... and I enjoy being around others that have found the ability to create their own happiness (as cheesy as it sounds, it truly does start from within!) i'm a bit of a contradiction at times... although i enjoy being feminine, i'm not a "girly girl"... i can only talk about hair and shopping for about 3 seconds and then its time to move on to a more interesting topic! but give me a philosophical debate or a cultural discussion, and i can give you a run for your money! i dont consider myself a cook but i can make awesome french crepes... i can't shoot pool but luck comes my way every once in awhile... i love animals, but enjoy fishing (but i do always throw them back!)...i'm serious enough to take care of life's responsibilities, but i'm silly enough to enjoy a good cartwheel or to enjoy various playground amenities with my son... as for what i enjoy and what im looking for... hmmm...i think the company is the most important part... if the company is great, the rest doesnt really matter... but if i could be with great company, have a great conversation (im partial to philosophical discussions), with a backdrop of a scenic vista (bonus points if its water... lake, ocean, etc) whether its over dinner, coffee, hiking, fishing, or whatever... that just might equal perfection. But fundamentally I'm looking for someone I would enjoy getting to know, and who in turn would enjoy getting to know me... and see where that leads!
