dapper7777

a man, looking for a man aged 39-53

About me

About me:

Hi you, I haven't joined yet... debating that! Soooooo, not able to easily reply back. Please be creative till I do. For me, it's all about the intangibles: That indefinable chemistry, those elusive magical sparks of electricity, voice harmony, ease of flow (I like that saying), small acts of love vs. an annual gift, light headiness, a little slapstick, scents, tactile touches, "getting each other", smiles, grins, belly laughs, warm messages, flirtatious sparring, and enjoyable conversations across broad & deep topics. :-) Did I miss anything? (smile) Isn't it really about that rare mind meld and love to jostle, spar, laugh, talk, plus perfect physical harmony? I do enjoy the tangible things like fine food, theater, cinema, music, traveling, deep powder skiing (out west or Europe), gourmet cooking, sailing, anything to do with the beach or Ocean, diving, swimming, SCUBA, underwater photography, and well hopefully you! And, I'd love to fall in love again in a LTR. No rush! hmmm... why all this serious "I work hard and I play hard" stuff on dating sites... well... I like to work easy and play easily! Although I'm looking for a holistic lasting relationship, I choose to not get obsessed and too serious about it. I'm a very very straight forward quintessential New Yorker, a decent human being, funny, healthy, good looking and fit looking for mutual undeniable physical attraction (downright lust) and overall chemistry. Including great conversation, jostling each other, knee slapping laughter, and long duration love making. I love lively, intelligent, animated, and opinionated conversations, plus anything to do with the Ocean... from Alaska, to New Zealand, Australia, the Caribbean, South America, Central America, and yes... Long Island. So long as it isn't New Jersey! lol (just kidding... I do cross that big ocean on rare event occasion) Independent... it depends on the issue and/or person. If anything I'm a rebel. What's happening now in the economy is necessary and very healthy (down the road). I'd like to be in a state of just wondering why a smile always forms when seeing you! Plus many small unexpected gifts rather than some annual one means so much more. Plus, I'm a deipnosophist at times so we can timely discuss true age later. Age was never a prerequisite for that magical gaze at each other, so I believe it's silly to put that as the upfront denominator. Also into fitness (not obsessively), but wish to meet a woman that's has a healthy physique, and please pleassse -- work or live local (Manhattan). Lastly, we must find laughing easy. Just random thoughts here... please don't fixate on anything! Hope to hear from you! :-)

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