lovelyladyinla

a woman, looking for a man aged 28-45

About me

About me:

first off, i generally type in all lowercase so rest assured, i do know proper grammar. it's just habit. so, i meet plenty of men but they lack the class, culture, and quality that i am looking for. i am a bit headstrong and can be stubborn but i am also very caring. i am loyal to a fault. i am a fun spirited thai/scots/irish gal. i am intelligent, self confident, passionate, romantic, and giving. i enjoy good food, wine, art, photography, trivia, writing, surfing, animals, and travel. i am also a phenomenal cook and am well versed in fine wine. first guy that contacted me on here so far is now an amazingly close friend that i adore (he lives in another country so there ya go). curious to see what else is out there. i did this once in 2001. picked one guy to meet, we dated 4 years and got engaged. it didn't ultimately work out but my best friend met her husband on a dating site. ya never know right?-a friend profiled me for a magazine last year. here are some of my answers to the interview questions about relationships:*Others may not see: "I am extremely complex. There are so many sides of my personality. You may find me out doing the Hollywood scene, or spending hours researching new technology, or working on a new art project. I may be joking around acting like a total goofball or immersed in deep intellectual debates with like minded friends. Just depends."*Most important quality in a man: "Honesty. If there is no trust in a relationship ... it is doomed from the get go. Most other aspects of successful relationships (friends or lovers) including bonding are dependent on the level of trust. Habitual lying shows a lack of respect for others and is inherently cowardice."*I wish men understood ... "They don't always need to agree , but they do need to learn to empathize. Sometimes it's not about right or wrong It's about understanding each other and communicating effectively. Generally speaking, guys need to be more emotionally involved and girls need to be less."*Greatest relationship lesson: "Communication, you absolutely have to communicate, you can't keep things bottled up. Many times couples bicker to everyone about their relationship issues but do little to communicate to find resolve. As Einstein stated, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. If something is flawed, fix it or take a break until you figure out what is causing the issue. Don't bitch, cheat, and lie. If you don't have respect for your partner, have some for yourself."

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