The1Uwish4

a man, looking for a man aged 25-45

About me

About me:

First let me say thanks for taking a look.A quick update... Please forgive me if I do not respond to your messages right away. At this time our family is dealing with some major medical issues that have required me to focus my attention on the care of my mother as she has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Unfortunately this would not be the best time to pursue any romantic involvements as it just would not be fair to either party involved. I appreciate many if not all of the interests that many of you have shown. I am quite overwhelmed with all of the emails I have been receiving. Some of you I have added as favorites and some I have had to make the decision to graciously pass on the offers.I am not sure how often I will be checking back here considering the circumstances, but you can try and contact me via my website. The user name is the key.The Facts:Very complex, but interesting none the less.Let me share a few keywords that I hope will spark your interest...Musician/Music Producer/Multimedia Designer (Not a plumber, carpenter, electrician, etc... but I am handy)Cool and laid back. (But I have my moments as does everyone.)Chivalrous. (I will open the doors etc, because that's the way I was raised.)TRUSTWORTHY (Anyone remember what that means?)Goal driven.Always seeking perfection.Incredible mind.Philosophical.Musically gifted.Good Conscience.Compassionate.Sarcastic (wit)Raised Italian style! (Think Everybody Loves R... only HBO style.)NOTE: I spend A LOT of time doing what I do. That has often been a problem in a relationship status. I am hoping to find someone who is considered independent, but, if in a MONOGAMOUS relationship to show self control. I am fully aware of all the temptations in this world, but loyalty and trustworthiness are virtues I prefer. If you are bi-sexual, cool... then I would love to watch. ;) I will always look at women, I am a man, but I am also one of good virtue. I allow just enough rope to hang oneself. In other words... I'll know. Some call it perception.This doesn't mean we won't spend time together. It means that when I work, there is no time limit. I sometimes put in 25 hour days and take cat naps where ever I may be working.I would love to enjoy the company of the right woman. What may happen, happens. As far as having children goes, well to be honest, I already have a son who I don't get to see for great lengths of time, and don't want a repeat performance. I actually love kids and they seem to dig me as I am a big kid myself. I would love to have a big family... what I don't want is to turn into a monthly check and a weekend visit. So it would be safe to say that I am extremely guarded about whom I let in to my life. It's not baggage, its caution.I like what I like and love what I love.I expect someone I would be with to be well spoken and educated. I don't care if you have an accent (I love accents), just know what you are saying. We can work through the translation.I don't know if I have a preference as to height... I can find attraction in either (but I am 6'1"). However I do prefer a nice slender to athletic shape.I am not one for extravagant foods, or sushi and the like. Not much into seafood period. But I will do an occasion shrimp dinner perhaps. (I will still take you out for sushi though. I'll just get something cooked thank you.)Sexually I am a Dominant. Now that doesn't mean I am gonna tie you up (unless you ask me too,hehe), it basically means that if your looking good to me (which I am sure is quite often), there's gonna be a whole lot of touchy feely! I like to give massages. I don't mind pda's, but I am always respectful and expect the same. ;)My musical tastes are varied. It depends on the time and the mood but I am open to most anything (I am a music producer and have had to work in many genres). I can dance, at least I haven't heard to the contrary. Don't expect any break dancing, etc... but you would feel comfortable on the floor with me.Movies and television: Anything from the Godfather to Avatar. (expect tears.lol) Law and Order, History, Discovery, Adult Swim, UFC, Stewie and Brian rule!Through my work I have been blessed with some great travels. I have seen a few parts of the world and would like to see more.I am a bundle of conflicts regarding many things. I guess that's why the headline fits.Good luck to all.Much love.

Recommended users

Coolcal, 59

Miami, Florida, United States

Richard1, 55

Miami, Florida, United States

George Walter, 55

Miami, Florida, United States

rudyrome, 58

Miami, Florida, United States