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07 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: weheartit Has an Aquarius caught your eye? Here are 7 truths you must know about loving an Aquarius zodiac sign to successfully woo the water-bearer and what it's like to be in a relationship with an Aquarius. Keywords: zodiac, horoscope, aquarius, love horoscopes, zodiac sign, astrological sign, love horoscope, zodiac traitsread more
06 May 2017, 08:00
Don't even bother trying to figure loving a Scorpio out. They can be the most complicated zodiac signs out there. Here's what it's like to be in a relationship with a Scorpio. Keywords: astrology, Dating, love, zodiac, horoscope, scorpio, compatability, november, Scorpions, zodiac sign, astrological sign, love horoscope, zodiac traitsread more
06 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: weheartit When you really like a guy but aren't sure if he feels the same, you can go crazy in your own head. But when you pay attention to these five things, only then can you figure out how to tell if a guy likes you. Keywords: attraction, Dating, dating advice, how to tell if a guy likes youread more
06 May 2017, 08:00
So what happens when a city girl tries to meet a nice country boy on the "Farmers Only" online dating site? Awkwardness and hilarity, of course! Read this Farmers Only review for a behind the scenes look. Keywords: cowboys, Dating, online dating, online dating advice, Relationships, cowboy, farmers onlyread more
04 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: weheartit Can you just not get that guy out of your mind? Here's how to stop obsessing over a man and start making good relationship decisions — because no one makes good decisions when they're obsessed. Keywords: attraction, Dating, obsession, Relationships, women, obsessed, obsessingread more
03 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: weheartit Confident, charismatic, and overwhelmingly charming, there are few who can compete with a narcissist when it comes to making a fantastic first impression. There are those who can see through the mask and those who can't. The latter will learn the hard way. More than simply someone who likes to look in the mirror and talk about themselves, narcissists are master manipulators with a strong objective to objectify and an inability to empathize. These men and women will do every possible thing they can to suck every last ounce of dignity and security out of their partners. And a relationship with them can be more than painful — it can be downright dangerous. Here are 20 signs you might be dating a narcissist (only a professional can say for sure), and the many ways they'll ruin your life. 1. They're often super-attractive. Even if they aren't Johnny Depp "gorgeous," their confidence, charm, and ability to "own a room" is an initial turn-on. via GIPHY Until, of course, you're in your 30th conversation where you're being dominated, condescended, and shocked by their arrogant peacocking. 2. They mistake kindness for weakness. Anyone who has ever found themselves pleading with a narcissist knows that the kinder you are, the meaner they become. These folks feel entitled to be cruel and will even go so far as to congratulate and brag about their ability to "cut people out," be "harsh," and humiliate others. You may hear these kinds of statements slowly in the beginning, but because they're so "wonderful" in other areas at the time, you may write them off as situation-specific, or think you're misunderstanding them. You'll only really understand how serious of an issue this is during the discard phase when their lack of empathy comes out in its most concentrated form. Victims will be treated in such a dismissive manner, and with such brutality that many will be left feeling they had to have caused it as no normal human being would ever respond that way over something so small or "nothing". That's the point you need to hold onto. No "normal" human being would. 3. They say you're perfect ... until you're not. Narcissists are masters of "love bombing," which is "an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection." In the beginning of your relationship with them, they will text you constantly, want to see you as much as possible, and tell you all the things you want to hear: you're perfect, you're an "angel from heaven," you're extremely smart, and so on. They do this to make you dependent on them, while also testing your boundaries. Are you going to back away or go with it? Will you reciprocate and follow suit? This shows them how much self-confidence you have and how strong you draw a line in the sand. Once they discover that you're human, holy devaluation, Batman! You'll not only be told the opposite, but you'll be punished for your "imperfections," which are often exaggerated and sometimes nonexistent projections. Punishment often includes terrible statements meant to degrade, demean, humiliate or stonewall you (not allowing you to express yourself). They withhold affection, and of course, give you the infamous narcissistic misericorde, the "silent treatment." They may even spread nasty rumors about you behind your back. 4. They're incredibly jealous of others. Successful and happy? Good looking and confident? Have a lot of friends or are a great cook? You're screwed. Remember the business card scene in American Psycho? The narcissist I was with told me he related to that scene as though it was perfectly normal. via GIPHY Narcissists also tend to be very jealous partners but only because, in their mind, you're a mere extension and a source of narcissistic supply, which they need to keep close and under their control. They will often be very threatened by any success or attention you receive for fear they will lose access to said supply and either react with anger or faux caring. Don't make the mistake in thinking it's you they want; it isn't. It's your attention, good or bad. That's it. 5. They're prone to cheating. Will they forgo narcissistic supply in order to protect your feelings, which they don't understand, relate to, or care about? Guess how that one goes. Hell, they may even do it just to hurt you. 6. They use sex as a weapon. They may watch porn, cheat, and think they're god's gift to the world, but because of their disdain for intimate connections, many narcissists prefer masturbation to sex with another person. They're known to make their partners go without sex as a way to frustrate, punish, and even humiliate them (out and out choosing porn over sex with them — and letting them know). According to Dr. Sam Vaknin, a self-confessed narcissist and author of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited, all narcissists abhor intimacy and use sex as a weapon. Somatic narcissists "masturbate with partners" whereas cerebral narcissists, males, in particular, despise women and view sex with them as a "chore." Cerebral's only have it on occasion to keep their source of supply (their partner) from leaving them.   Related: 3 Mind Games ALL Narcissistic Men Play In Relationships   7. They're big on threesomes. No, not those kinds. Narcissists love to set up "triangles" where their partners feel "at odds" with someone else, and jealousy and fighting for love and attention can ensue (ah, the supply!). This could be with an ex, a mother, or a friend, but the point is to make sure they're at the center of attention and desire. This is known as triangulation and it's meant to make you feel insecure, undesirable, and keep you anxious and "on your toes." 8. They're Einstein and you're an idiot. Not really, of course, but narcissists truly believe they're the only people left on earth who know anything, maintain any culture or Keywords: Dating, dating advice, love, love advice, narcissism, narcissist, dating a narcissist, narcissistic, NPD, Personality Disorders, Brenda Della Casaread more
03 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: Weheartit A new research out of the University of Chicago has found that you, can "definitively" figure out if a stranger wants some sexy fun with you. Here's how to tell if what he's feeling is love or lust. Keywords: attraction, eye contact, eyes, love, love at first sight, lust, love or lust, love vs. lustread more
03 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: WeHeartIt Can’t stop thinking about him? Not sure if you’re feeling attraction or obsession? Here are 3 major signs that you're not in love – you’re infatuated. Keywords: attraction, Dating, infatuation, obsessionread more
03 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: weheartit There are many ways to learn how to tell if a guy likes you, but you may not know where to start. First, start off by figuring out how interested he is by asking yourself a few questions. Then, accept that he may just not be ready for a relationship. Keywords: attraction, Dating, dating advice, how to tell if a guy likes youread more
03 May 2017, 08:00
Photo: WeHeartIt Stop making excuses for being single! If you want real love, you need to get out of your own way. These 7 excuses are the reason you're still single. Keywords: love, singleread more